What to Expect for Premature Babies

I was fortunate enough to have a normal, healthy baby at 38 weeks, but my friend did have a premie. Here's what she said to expect if you do.

Being Prepared For A Preemie: 13 Things I Wish That I’d Known

At just 34 weeks, I welcomed Sadie Sara Grace weighing 4lbs. 5oz. After delivery, I held her for literally 2 seconds before they immediately took her to the NICU. For 12 hours, I had no idea what was going on with my daughter, just procedure after procedure. They wouldn’t let my husband see her until about 10 hours after I delivered her. Finally, he was able to hold her, but I still hadn’t seen her since giving birth. Come to find out, she had some severe complications, went into shock and had to revived for a few seconds after intubation. One of the many reasons I wasn’t able to hold her for 12 hours. 
After 4 very long weeks in the NICU, we finally welcomed Sadie home. With her little accessory — a heart monitor. However, we felt blessed she was able to be with us and fought through her journey. While I may be a pro when it comes to being a Mom – I was not a pro at handling a preemie. I remember how hard leaving the hospital was without my baby. It is something that I can’t even explain. Holding back the tears every time I had to leave her behind was heart breaking. Knowing I had a baby but she was not with us, at home, like a new baby should be.
Here is what I wish I would have known when it comes to preparing for a preemie, after the jump. 

- Don't Stress Over the Cords

It may be overwhelming to see cords, PICU lines, and a feeding tube - but, it is all helping your baby. Don't worry if everything alarms when you pick them up for the first times. It happens! 

- Have Faith, They Are In Good Hands

You have to remind yourself, the hospital is the best place for a preemie. If you have any concern ever, always talk to someone. Especially if you aren't happy with your care. And remember, call to check on your baby anytime when you can't be at their side. 

-  Research Your Hospital 

Make sure the hospital where you are delivering has a good NICU. Even if your baby is full term, this is still something you need to know to make sure your baby gets the best care. 

- Prepare the Nursery 

Make sure you do this ahead of time so if you go into labor way before your due date, you're prepared. 

- Preemie Baby Problems

Read about common preemie problems. Apena, Respiratory distress, Jaundice...things you may become familiar with over time.

- Don't Feel Guilty

When you have to leave the hospital, it's okay to cry. Don't feel guilty to not be at the bed side 24/7. You need your rest too!

- They May Have to Go Back

Be prepared. As preemies, they catch things easily and may have to return to the NICU. But remember, it's the best place for them. 

 

 -Make It or Break It Points

Your preemie will need to meet goals. From breathing on his own to being able to maintain body temperature out of the incubator. Your baby will have steps it needs to meet before discharge. Being able to bottle-fed and gaining weight steadily is a must. 

 

 - Be Prepared for Anything

For any emergency once the baby is home. Take an Infant CPR class before your baby comes home. This may even be required for those with apnea monitors. 

 

- Have a Plan

If you have other children, make sure you have a plan or schedule when it comes to visiting your baby in the NICU. Remember, your older children will remember when you aren't there. Don't feel guilty if you have to leave the baby. 

 

- Discharge Day

You will feel a mixture of worry and joy. Remember, your team of doctors will not send a preemie home until they know the baby is ready. 

 

- Finally Home

Once you are home, expect to keep a calm and quiet environment. Preemies are susceptible because their immune systems are still developing. Don't plan on running errands with them just yet! 

 

- They Will Be Okay

Sadie, now 1 year old, with no health issues at all!